Do you believe there is a magic formula for fulfilling your wishes? I claim THERE IS. The usage of this formula is not quite simple until you start to understand. Do you know what’s important? You have to talk deeply with yourself. Many people don’t know that. A lot of people flee from themselves and in this way they are surviving. If you are one of those people and you don’t want to change anything about that, there is no need to read it further.
If you have a desire, the first thing is to see whether you really want it or just think you want it. Take a deep breathe and think about why do you want that. For example, you want 1.000.000$. Think about why do you want this amount. What will you do with them? Many of us will answer for being happy, to buy a house, a car, an apartment…and what then? Was your wish fulfilled? Are you happy? You will realize that you might not need 1,000,000 $ to be happy, buy a house, apartment, car … and there are other ways to get these. There is more hide behind our desires than we think. When you analyze your wishes deeply, you will figure out that it isn’t really your wish, it’s only a game of your ego. If you don’t calm him, he will want to you the desires which you don’t want.
If you sincerely want your wish, bravo, you did a great deal of work. Have you done anything to make your wish come true? You have to take an action. Having decided to set off, you have done the half work. It is also important that you enjoy the journey that leads to your desire and be assured that your desire will come to the right moment.
At the next step, many of us fail. People get emotionally attached to their desire and have high expectations. That is the biggest mistake. As long as you do this, your desire will not come in the right form. All that what you convulsively and immensely want will not be fulfilled. On the contrary, you will get even more of what you don’t want. Many of us are waiting that their wish will be fulfilled to be happy. A big mistake! You need to be happy to make your wish fulfilled.
If you took an action, the best thing what you can do is not focusing on your desire and dedicate yourself to do the things which fulfilled you. That is often difficult. I know, because I’m failing here too. But do you know the saying, “when you least hope that will it be,” because at that moment you have realized that you don’t need your desire to be happy.
“Modern man lives under the illusion that he knows what he wants, while he really wants what he is supposed to want.”-Erich Fromm
(Author: Lejla Motoruga)
