Love is the trigger of everything for me. She is the one who gives life a purpose. She is the cure for everything.
At first, I want to ask you, do you love yourself? Think about it. I believe most of us will say “YES” without thinking too much about it. Now let me ask you if you settle for anything less than what you deserve or something you don’t want? Think about it… If the answer is “yes”, I think you don’t love yourself enough. It is hard to admit some things yourself. If you pass this second question and love yourself, I am glad for you. You are on the way to living life to the fullest.
We can love other people if we love ourselves and accept ourselves as we are. I love observing people. I have noticed that we all want love, but unfortunately, many people run away from themselves and thus move away from love. I noticed too that people want and want and want and want something…. and what are they ready to give it? NOTHING.
If you want to live love, you must first be love. This means working on ourselves and living life as the best version of ourselves. I believe many of us are in the comfort zone. You are used to this painful situation. In that way, you survive your life.
I have noticed that many people are in a relationship or a marriage without love. It’s very sad! In a relationship or a marriage that hurts, there isn’t love. Love doesn’t hurt. Love heals. Other people trying to convince me that unfaithfulness was normal and that the person who cheated loves the cheated person. I have long believed that. But now I DON’T believe it. How can someone who really loves cheat?
Many people under pressure or for wrong reasons accept a relationship or marriage and thus survive life. The worst thing is that people who don’t know better, assure us that love should hurt, that by the age of 30 we should be married, have children …. it is a long list. And thus a vicious circle is formed. Your life is in your hands …
