Why Your Older Sister Is So Important And Makes Your Life Better

If you have an older sis, you know just how much better she makes your life.

You can hide behind her when you get into trouble, make her do your chores, and most importantly borrow her clothes (without her ever telling).

But there is even more to thank her for. According to psychologists, having a sister improves your mental stability and overall development. Children who grow up with sisters around them are happier and become better-adjusted adults.

Here is how they make your life better every day:

1. She lowers your chance of getting a divorce in the future.

A study from Ohio State University found evidence that children with siblings had a lower chance of getting a divorce in the future. One aspect is that having a sister makes you a more mature and less self-centered. Kids with siblings need to learn how to share and deal with conflicts very early on, so this upbringing is very relevant when dealing with a romantic partner.

2. She’s the reason why your parents are more lenient toward you.

If you think growing up was hard for you, believe it or not, it was way harder for your sister. A study has found that parents are much more strict and harsh toward their firstborns when compared to the rest of the siblings. First-time parents are all about rules and too many expectations, but they are reduced when another child is born and they get more lenient.

3. She cheers you on and helps you achieve your goals.

Growing up with sisters makes you more ambitious and independent. It’s a normal process for the younger ones to imitate their older siblings as part of their social and cognitive development. Even if you’re not aware, your big sister is fundamental in shaping your personality.

4. She improves your mental health by being there for you.

Sibling affection is super important in emotional development and can evenhelp cure depression. It has also been found that having a sister makes you a kinder, more empathetic person.

So if you have an older sister, tell her today just how much she means to you.