Stop Whining! You Choose For Yourself
I want to remind you that you have a strong power, but you often forget it. Often you bury deep this strong power so that you no longer notice it, and in this way, you survive your life. Do you know what this is about? This strong power is called choice(es). I think of your personal choices!
I have noticed that many of us are whining, complaining about various situations, always blame others for something, and they only do that because they have chosen that for themselves. I believe there is a solution to every problem. Sometimes we have to seek a little longer, but we can always find it. The solution is often in ourselves, but many of us don’t like to deal with ourselves too much. I even believe that some of us have a fear of themselves, so they run in an unknown direction. And that’s a choice too.
Think about your choices. Do you make choices which you think that you want, the ones you really want, or the choices which are expected of you? Did you choose love? Did you choose happiness? Did you choose to be the best version of yourself in your life? What have you chosen? You have the power, so choose according to what you want.
I didn’t always choose what I really wanted. Sometimes I choose what I thought I wanted. That was a big mistake! A bigger mistake is when you allow other people to influence your choices. Will you continue to whine, complain or blame others for the situation you are in? As soon as you choose what you really want, you will feel that everything changes.
(Author: Lejla Motoruga)