Morality Stops Where The Force Begins

What is MORAL for you? Have you thought about what exactly does it represents for you? Could you imagine some moral and immoral scenes in your head? I thought about morality for a long time before I started writing this text. One guy told me it was important to him that his girlfriend is moral. When I asked him what did it mean to him, he gone silent. He couldn’t give me an explanation.
I have noticed that in our society, people talk a lot about morality without knowing the exact definition. Many of us classify people as moral or immoral, knowing very little about them. I wonder what parameters do they take?
I think morality is very changeable in our society and depends on person to person, city to city, state to state, continent to continent….E.g. If I lived in a country that has other parameters for measuring morale that doesn’t fit in with my parameters, I would probably be labeled as an immoral and disobedient person.
For me is a moral person the one who is doing all the things with she is aligned and doing things that makes her happy without offending anyone. E.g. live your dreams, fight for your desires, go your own way even though many people won’t understand your way, don’t judge other people, appreciate your life, smile at someone, help someone, try to understand other people ……
Imagine parents who are forcing their (adult) children to follow the way that they choose for them, and the child opposes them. Who is in this case moral and who is immoral? The Parents who are forcing their child to go the way that they don’t want, or the child who is disobey? For me, the parents turned out to be immoral. Force isn’t moral for me.
Everyone has their own opinion about morality, this was mine. Somebody will like it, somebody won’t like it. We are all different.
(Author: Lejla Motoruga)